Letter to a friend that I missed the wedding…

So I send this out today because I know you guys must have been very busy yesterday.

I have good news and bad news:

Let’s start with a good one. I still remember when I met you guys in Bandung, I was a bit sceptical when I met Cedrik because you seemed to be a tough one with a little to no smile type of guy. But the second time around I met you guys in Bali, it was one hell of an experience, I get to see a bit of your relationship, and I think I told Dian “I like this guy, you guys are clearly having so much fun together”. Little did we know, the ship has finally landed in the final love island. I swear if we look it all back, none of us thought this would be ended the way it is, but this is a beautiful ending that you guys should be proud of and cherished!

Bad news:

I cried as I write this because I’ve seen it myself that God will and love work in a very funny way. I know you guys are so over the “enough heartbreak dating”, we all know that the search for love was not supposed to be easy, because that’s what teaches you what you’re actually looking for. If you didn’t get lost, distracted, and sometimes even tricked into thinking you found love, you would have no idea how to differentiate from all of the options that are out there. But the goof old advice says that you shouldn’t have to try to find love, it happens when you least expect it. When you’re focused on meeting someone with a certain type, that stress can be seen from a mile away, and that is frustating, BUT when you don’t have that at the top of your mind and are just enjoying yourself in the moment without any preconceived notions, things can progress naturally, just like what you guys two have shown us.

bloom blossom bouquet couple
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I hope through the years you become even better friends and share every possible kind of happiness life can bring. Remember, you are going to write the next chapters of your life stories together and I simply can’t wait to read it (ofc if I’m allowed to).

With the greatest heartbreak of not attending the wedding due to lack of resources, and by resources I mean money and time, I wish you guys a happy wedding. I miss you two, and hope our path crossed again somewhere someday.

I’m not crying, you are!




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